See, when I was fifteen years old I made a vow to God that I would remain a virgin until I was married. The rest of my week consisted of many phone calls and text messages from Mr. ” Okay, you get the point, I was anything but nice.
I am a Christian woman and with that being said, whenever I do anything I always ask God for guidance. When I had prayed about this particular guy, I felt in my spirit that God wanted me to go ahead and tell him about my vow before things got really serious with us.
I realized that I was completely over the entire situation altogether. He even told me that I was way too confident to be a virgin.
Here I was at twenty five years old telling this guy that I’m a virgin and his immediate response was, “Show me the proof.” So, what was the epiphany? Show Me The Proof saying that he just can’t believe it because society has shown him otherwise and this infamous line of his: “I feel like you just told me that Popeye’s sells tacos.” Oh and this one too : “All my life people have been telling me that pigs don’t fly.” From me he received a bunch of messages that said and I quote: “Please piss off! I get that he was surprised that a black woman at the age of twenty five was still a virgin but the disrespect that he spewed at me had completely turned me off and right then I was done.
You might think that, but researchers actually found that virgins considered themselves even less likely to enter into a relationship with another virgin.
In the third part of the study, college students ranked dating profiles of virgins and non-virgins, and the latter were again considered more desirable dates.
Seriously, is it more acceptable for a woman to say, “Hey I’ve had about fifty three sexual partners, do you want to be number fifty four? He needed some witnesses to attest to the fact that I was a virgin. I just keep trucking on or err- galloping (since I’m a unicorn and all).
So, I guess virgins are supposed to be timid and insecure or something? It’s completely unacceptable to be a virgin now-a-days and that is so absurd. I mean, I can’t miss something that I’ve never had. Show Me The Proof, did I mention that he’d begin asking about me to other people? At that moment, there was no such thing as loneliness. I know who I am and I know my self worth and if I’m dating a guy and he can’t wait until we’re married to have sex then to hell with him.
Well, at least virgins can date one another, right?For a virgin on a mission, swiping their V-card should theoretically be as simple as finding the neighborhood's best Thai losing her virginity via a casual Tinder hookup. "Now it doesn't consume my thoughts, I think about it pretty frequently though and I'm hungry for more, but it doesn't stress me out anymore," she wrote.In fact, there are a number of 20-something women who have specifically utilized Ok Cupid and Tinder to facilitate first-time sex.Anecdotal and statistical evidence suggests plenty of young adult daters, both gay and straight, wait to have sex for any number of reasons — personal, physical, relational or religious. It was good though, and I didn't feel any remorse or guilt over letting a stranger take my virginity."She'd prepared for the date by practicing with sex toys, masturbating and going to Planned Parenthood.And you better believe they're online dating."We internalize this idea of sex as something that is constantly available and that everyone is doing, and if you're not doing it, there's something wrong with you," Rachel Hills, author of 2015 book spoke with have no interest in having sex right away, some are using dating apps for one reason only: to have sex. Finally losing her virginity eased her anxieties about sex.