If you're flowing with it and cool, we've got a winner.If you seem offended by it, that's as far as we go." —Steve M."Girls should try to avoid pre-judging before a first date.Half the fun of going out is getting to know someone new, so allow yourself to let that happen organically." —Oliver B."Please don't compare us to your exes—out loud or even in your head.Sometimes horror stories about them can make for fun discussion, but don't ever bring your ex into the conversation if it's not called for.I have identified the following rules to change the approach:1. How fun is it to hang out with someone who only puts themselves down? If men aren’t interested in you, it probably isn’t because you aren’t a supermodel, it is probably because they can see how you feel about yourself. What happens is that we forget most of them after the age of 21, and then realize we need to relearn them.I wish there weren't any general rules, but courtship is a ritual. If we just threw ourselves together, then the chances of long term happiness might be compromised.
"At some point you need to let him know you're interested by reaching out.
by Giovanni Casanova The following list has been compiled as the result of insights on these forums as well as my own personal experiences.
Now, in life there are sometimes exceptions to rules, but in general these rules should be followed. RULE 3: Do not become so invested in any one girl that you cannot simply walk away. Accept the fact that you're going to get rejected more times than not. RULE 23: Getting advice about women from a woman is like asking Osama bin Laden to tell you the locations of all his terrorist camps.
Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider's 1995 bestseller "The Rules," explains how women should play hard if they want to get their guy.
I can understand why some groups would be hostile about this, but the fact is that when we grow up, there are a predefined set of dating rules.