“At the same time, the seemingly endless ‘choices’ felt like eating a giant box of cereal where you’re not sated, but you’ve gotten tired of eating.
Lee, who has degrees in molecular biophysics, biochemistry, secondary science education, and ceramics from schools including Yale and Columbia, was inspired to build Siren after she pinpointed several inefficiencies in the online dating market — which she describes as “inane and infantile in its intrinsic design.” “On all dating sites, there was immediate discomfort, like women were pinned insects under a spotlight,” explained Lee.
Anyone with some experience in relationships will confirm you that in any kind of relationship there is always a dominant and a submissive, a leader and a follower.
This idealist feminist fantasy that men and women need to be both neutral and have the same role is extremely naïve, unrealistic, unworkable and will most likely ensure that your relationship with the woman you love will crash and burn sooner than later.
Another thing is, being the dominant is not an easy job, a woman is way more free if she doesn’t have the burden of carrying that hard job! You’re responsible for her, for the kids, for the relationship, for the health, wealth and future of every member of your family.
Young and naive feminist women want to take the dominant role but while they learn about life, they realize one thing: being the dominant doesn’t mean having all what you want, easy, every day! To be the dominant, you need to have a desire to be the responsible one, to plan for the future and guide the others, to initiate things, to support, encourage and take the responsibility for failures and problems. If your house catches fire and one of your kids is stuck inside, you’re the one who is going to risk or even give his life to save them. This is a heavy job, and this is one of the reasons that drive women sooner or later to desire the freedom that the submissive role provides.
Even if she cannot openly express it because of the feminist ideology and oppression in the media, you have to realise that being in the submissive role is something she actually receives satisfaction from, and, for the same reason, this also apply to sex which is at the heart of men-women relationships.
Naturally authoritative and instinctively a leader, I've enjoyed exploring a broad expression of the sensual and sexual for several years; it's who I am and what I must be to be fulfilled, which I have to look for beyond marriage. To smile, to laugh, to find intensity of experience in letting go.
I'm looking for a woman who senses this is what she needs: is curious, convinced or just not sure but is prepared to discover with one who knows what he's doing, is generous, responsible, kind and a safe - an exciting pair of hands into which you can entrust yourself to find sensual release, pleasure and freedom. I'll be interested in you and committed to your fulfilment.
The basic reason why women are attracted to more dominant men is mainly because they figure: if he can’t even handle me, how the hell he is going to be able to protect me from anything else?
No matter how much feminist brainwashing they have been influenced by, it’s part of their core instincts!