I couldn’t contain my insecurities and the evening would turn from a fun and enjoyable one to a slugfest of animosity.I’d fantasize about ways to stumble into conversations with her. Everything would be fine until she’d pull a pair of heels out of her closet. There was a girl in one of my classes at the University of Florida.I’d hope and pray she’d wear some other type of shoes. I knew she was on the volleyball team because she’d always wear their apparel. Why’d that all crumble to the ground when she jutted up 4-5 inches above me? Normally I’d feel myself; completely comfortable and natural around her.Alder tags: bickering, cruelty, ego, fake-christians, fights, hateful, hurt, hurting-me, insecure-women, jealous-women, manipulation, mean-women, needs-to-be-right, not-communicating, playing-games, purposeful, sisters, stalkers, stalking, stalking-me, superiority, witch-hunting tags: blaming, brainwashed, compassionless, cyberbullying, defamation, denial, disorders, ego, entrapment, fear, games, greed, hacking, hatred, heartless, immaturity, infidelity, insecure-women, jealousy, law-suits, lies, me-complex, medical-malpractice, piety, religious-hypocrisy, self-asbsorbed, selfishness, settling, stupidity tags: betrayal, bickering-women, choices, christlike-woman, competition, dating, daughter-of-god, evil, games, good-woman, innocent, insecure-woman, insecure-women, jealous-women, kindness, kingdom, liars, marriage, mate, right-woman, self-respect, spirituality, spouse, the-one, unrighteous-woman “Don't waste your time trying to provide people with proof of deceit, in order to keep their love, win their love or salvage their respect for you.
When a needy guy gets dumped by a woman he really likes (often before they’ve even had sex), he will start looking for reasons why.There’s nothing wrong with showing your interest in a woman when you first meet her or being madly in love with her in a relationship, but there is a problem when your love and affection becomes warped by neediness.Needy love is unattractive to women because women are attracted to the emotional strength and security of men and turned off by the weakness.Readying herself for a night out, she tries on multiple lipsticks, each inspiring a different personality, before selecting exactly none.She describes herself as “aggressively passive” and avoids conflict even when it would simplify things.